~IT's My L!Fe~

A few tips to have a great day!!! Be Self confident and not over confident... Keep in mind you can't just know it all.. give yourself time and that in turn will give you experiance... A lot of people will come in your path of success not all will support you, some will have a positive attitude and some will always DeMotivate you.. Keep away from those -ve Idiots... you never loose, even if you fail you gain experiance . Learn Learn & Learn Thankyou , Please & Sorry are really the 3 Golden words... Never let go an oppurtunity to say thanks {Reward Xtra miles in case you are an HCLite}to the person who helps you, Never keep those sorry's in your heart and please use please life will be much more comfortable. Don't let the pressure destroy you... Do not let time slip through your fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to you, those close to your hearts. Stay calm, confident and Smile always... Remember its only ...

This article is dedicated to All my friends who are working now or have just started their career and to all my friends who are in the final years of their College life an will soon be market ready!! With just 4 months of experience in a Telecom company and 1 week in an IT company,  many of you will say i am no one to write this , in that case take this article about the ATTITUDE with which i want to start my career. Your immediate response will be "Spend a few months in this industry and then we'll see whether you crib {complain} or not!!" or "Every organisation is not the same, maybe you are lucky" Well guys to start with why is it that we have no end to Expectations, i understand that we all should have expectations from our life, our organisations, our managers but does that mean nothing in this world meets your expectations.. I mean you enter a new place and start complaining that they don't pay well, they don't have good chairs or goo...

Kaash koyi Hota ,  Jo Samajhta is Dil Ko.. Baarish ki pehli boond aur Sard subah ki pehli dhoop ko... Samajhta un ehsason ko , Jo shabdon se baiyaan nahin hote.. Aur Samajhta us ek aansun ko jo aankhon tak aata to hai , par kahin kho sa jata hai... Kaash koyi Hota ,  Jo Samajhta is Dil Ko.. Dil mein chupe hazaroon armaano ko, Un ankahee khayalon ko, Mujhko aur meri Tanhayi ko... Kaash koyi Hota ,  Jo Samajhta Is Dil Ko , Is shayeri ko. ..

My sincere apologies to all my readers for not updating my blog for a long time.. but that doesn't mean i have stopped thinking or my heart has stopped working... As i always say Whenever a thought strikes your heart and soul never let it go waste convert it into words... Since its a little difficult to blog then and there, i tried to convert those thoughts in SMS and here are a few msgs that i composed whenever i found myself lonely... Kehte hain Duniya simat si gayi hai... Chund taaron se judh si gayi hai... Par is mobile aur net ki duniya mein, humne to khudko bheed mein bhi tanha paya hai.. Do ghoont pine ke baad rota paya hai.. Kisi ke intezaar mein waqt ko bhool gaye hain, Intezaar kiska hai ab to yeh bhi bhool gaye hain... Hamari nazaron se dekho duniya bikhar si gayi hai, Taaron ke jaal mein Fus si gayi hai... Yeh Rishte bhi kitne ajeeb hote hain na??? Kab kisse jud jaye iski khabar hi khan hone dete hain... Kis baat se toot jayen yeh kisko pata... Ehmiyat inki tab pata chu...

This Post was written by -  Varun Chowdhary I'm writing, hence i'm sad. True, very true but i'm not truly sad, i'm sad and confused, i'm sad because many people in my life have decided to part company if not completely then atleast emotionally and this month has been the single most emotionally overloaded month that i've had for years, people grow apart slowly, they fall out of love over their own stupid realizations, they are ripped by distance and drift apart. While some just soldier on fighting and making up then fighting again then making up again in a cycle that keeps them sensitised to each other. While some go far away and some remain stuck in the moment that they just can't get out of. While only one type truly strive to understand each other, if they are doomed for the worse i don't want to know and if they are doomed to end up together i still don't want to know just that they are doomed either way should be enough. If you can relate to...

kaash thum jata waqt wahin.. [SELF COMPOSED] [DEDICATED TO PEOPLE WHO ARE OVER BUSY WITH THERE JOBS AND DON'T HAVE TIME FOR FRIENDS] " Kaash Thum Jata Waqt Wahin.. Na aate hum is mukaam kabhii... Saath rakhte the jin doston ko.. Aaj waqt hi nhin un kamino ko... Taras gaye hain.. CCD ki coffee pine ko... wo toot toot kar chese burst khane ko... 2 ghoont pine ko.. Aur chuski ki chusk lene ko... Saath baithkar 2 min batiyane ko.. Thakee maar maar ke hasne ko... Wo raat raat bhar jagne ko... wo class mein sone ko.. Aur Daaru pikr rone ko... Wo Janamdin par pitne ko.. Aur IP pe multicast karne ko... The kabhi zindagi ke boss humhi.. Aaj boss aur office zindagi ho gayi... Office ki coffee me wo mithas nhin.. IP to hai par muticast nahin.. Baaton mein jazbaat nahin.. Haste to hain par Ab wo baat nahin.. Ab wo baat nahin... Kaash Thum Jata Waqt Wahin.. Na aate hum is mukaam kabhii..."

This Post was written by -  Varun Chowdhary Dear unfortunate reader, i am not in a good mood, no i'm in a possibly vile mood, no strike that too, i'm in a mood that will drive me to murder in a painful and excruciating way that society in general will shudder to think that a man can be so violent, yes that is the type of mood i'm in (perfect), i'm usually pissed at the use of cliche's while reading anything unless and until the particular piece is using cliche's to slam those dirty little buggers(cliche's). Yet i find that these sort of expressions are very commonly used and then overused to an extent where i find that i simply can't stomach them and i stop reading the aforementioned piece. But this overkill simply does not seem to penetrate the thick concretish skulls of our esteemed press, print or electronic media. They just keep on slinging that shit in our direction and because of lack of choice we simply wipe our faces and struggle forward i...

kaash thum jata waqt wahin.. [SELF COMPOSED] [DEDICATED TO PEOPLE WHO ARE OVER BUSY WITH THERE JOBS AND DON'T HAVE TIME FOR FRIENDS] " Kaash Thum Jata Waqt Wahin.. Na aate hum is mukaam kabhii... Saath rakhte the jin doston ko.. Aaj waqt hi nhin un kamino ko... Taras gaye hain.. CCD ki coffee pine ko... wo toot toot kar chese burst khane ko... 2 ghoont pine ko.. Aur chuski ki chusk lene ko... Saath baithkar 2 min batiyane ko.. Thakee maar maar ke hasne ko... Wo raat raat bhar jagne ko... wo class mein sone ko.. Aur Daaru pikr rone ko... Wo Janamdin par pitne ko.. Aur IP pe multicast karne ko... The kabhi zindagi ke boss humhi.. Aaj boss aur office zindagi ho gayi... Office ki coffee me wo mithas nhin.. IP to hai par muticast nahin.. Baaton mein jazbaat nahin.. Haste to hain par Ab wo baat nahin.. Ab wo baat nahin... Kaash Thum Jata Waqt Wahin.. Na aate hum is mukaam kabhii..."

Disclaimer : A song that was famous in a lot of Engineering coll's in the days when my uncle did his Engineering!! Just like we enjoy " Koi deewana kehta hai koi pagal samjhta hai " *I have tried to reproduce the entire song to the best of my memory, the original song might have a few minor changes!! Lovely si madam decent dhoondenge.. Not temporary permanent dhoondenge.... Lovely si madam, Aha ha ha…Hmm Hmm Hmmmm… Chahe bengal ki ho, chahe gujrat ki ho, Shimla ki ho ya pyaare, woh nanital ki ho Hum aisi, ho ho ho, hum aisi, hmm hmm, hum aisi beauty queen dhoondenge. Not temporary, permanent dhoondenge Lovely si madam, Aha ha ha…Hmm Hmm Hmmmm… Achhi si Height ho, color bhi white ho, Rashan ka yug hai pyaare kum se kum diet ho, Rashan ka yug hai pyaare kum se kum diet ho.. Hum aisi, ho ho ho, hum aisi, hmm hmm, hum aisi Sweet Sixteen dhoondenge. Not temporary, permanent dhoondenge Lovely si madam, Aha ha ha…Hmm Hmm Hmmmm… Evergreen ho, Beauty queen ho, Age bhi uski pyare,...

This Post was written by -   Varun Chowdhary The title is a reference to the Japanese program gera babu is undergoing, and because this particular article is being written for his blog, or to be a little more specific, one of his blogs devoted to the budding talents of his friends, now I will not endeavor to say that I’m one of his best friends but he is one of my favorite seniors and a person who I admire as well as despise. There are some of his habits that just drives me insane and gera babu that includes you dissing Delhi whenever you can, but I really love his style man he is one energizer battery. Now, this is starting to sound like a testimonial so I shall turn to the job really at hand that is writing something meaningful in his blog. I’m a conflicted person, not in the emotional sense but in a creative sense, both serious and frivolous topics hold equal sway over me. That I tend to find misery in the best of situations and comedy in the most dour of instances. I would...

This rant was written for the  Wharton Undergraduate Journal , Found a link to this on twitter and after reading it and feeling a part of myself mentioned here couldn't resist posting it for all of you!! This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who resp...

Wondering why i wrote #weekend!!! Well this post is about this weekend, A truly amazing weekend and usually i don't need a blog post to describe a weekend because my regular twitter updates would have done the same thing. But the weekend was so amazing that i didn't even got the chance to post updates to my twitter!!! When on Friday night i tweeted about the weekend using tags #weekend and asked everyone what are there plans to make this weekend amazing, I never imagined that even I'll have such a great weekend!! Well before i begin to describe it, there are three people who made it possible and they are Rishabh {Richi}, Vinodini {Vinni} and Vipul {Gifty} , Wondering why i didn't wrote the names of my best friends Moushmi and sahil well you'll know.. There a saying that "you get to know the true worth of someone when that someone is not with you". To an extent that is the case here... Me, Sahil and Moush were together last weekend also and it was also good...

This is a post that i wrote on January 3rd 2007, when i used to blog only when i had a bad day and some thought would be disturbing me, and my blog was one place where i used to pour out all my feelings!!! So why am I re posting a Two and a Half year old entry, well just read this post and then I'll tell you why... Just when i thought that my life is rocking with out any problems n tensions….. something happened which reminded me of 1 of my previous blog entry where i wrote:— “when love invades,,,,, frenship fades….” yes this quotation again proved to be a truth… it feels so bad when some one who is close to u, n was with u for so long.. makes u feel that love is much much imp than frenship… I am not talking about just sm1 bt 1spl one… yes a person for whom u did so much,, u were there for her when she ws in trouble or pain or when she had a fight wd her love… bt a month long love story can break years of friendship n trust… just think how will u feel when a fren like this who ws s...

Cool Blue Granita The Last time i was at Cafe Coffee Day in DLF Place Mall in Saket, Delhi with my friends and when i tasted the Cool Blue Granita that i ordered, I immediately realized that i can make this at my home, especially because of all the bar syrups i have at home... I tried many times but never actually anything close to it, Today was indeed a special day because out of all the TV channels i selected NDTV GOOD TIMES to pass time along with Internet... A show called "In High Spirits" was what i needed to get the exact idea of how to make it. Every time i have tried till now, i used to crush ice and Add Blue Curacao Bar Syrup to it but i never got the desired result.. A small tip from that show changed everything, so here i am sharing with you what i did this time to get the result you can see in the picture on top. 1> Take a pitcher and Add crushed ice in it.. {i used a manual ice crusher and used around 16 ice cubes} 2> Add a lot of  Blue Curacao Bar Syrup...

[caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="516" caption="My-Chandigarh"] [/caption] The world, it seems, is celebrating India’s first modern city. Even as London fetes the brilliance of master architect Le Corbusier through an ongoing exhibition, ‘Time’ magazine has dubbed Chandigarh as ‘’the thinking man’s city’’ amidst ‘’a continent of mindless growth’’.  Featured as one of the 15 places in ‘Best of Asia-2009’ list, the city has been detailed as a model - almost un-Indian - city, with its ‘’egalitarian sectors’’ and ‘’tranquil settings’’. In a fitting tribute to the venerated Swiss-French creator, Chandigarh, the magazine says, reflects the ‘’Best Application of Corbusian Principles’’.  Applauding the title, the first chief architect of Chandigarh, MN Sharma, says, ‘’The city deserves this status. The architectural plan, which was prepared after studying several European cities, envisaged a unique destination, which Chandigarh has truly become.’...

GOOOOOOOD --- MORNINGGG READERS T ell me one thing, what do you think you'll see when you'll get out of your home if you happen to live somewhere in the East Delhi . I tell you, when you'll step out of your home you'll be embraced by the cool breeze, lovely weather, chirping birds and beautiful surroundings... [caption id="attachment_320" align="aligncenter" width="472" caption="Rising Sun!! Click to see full size image"] [/caption]       SURPRISED , I know what you would be saying right now, "This Guy has gone crazy!!!" All you can get to see in Delhi is Traffic,Dust,Heat,pollution and trash everywhere... Well for the past 5 months that i have spent in Delhi, i have just seen that only but This morning was a bit different. Well last night turned out to be one of those beautiful nights that I used to have in my Coll, Night outs, Movies or TV shows whole night, Last night also i was working on the comment system of  Three...

Now just don't say yes read this first... When i say, I am a person who can live alone trust me i really can do that, because even if i have no one around me, I have someone always with me and that's my thoughts... Yes those thoughts that fuels this and my other blogs... Now where do these thoughts come from, the credit goes to you, yes you and all the other people who are around me. Observing people around me gives me the reason to write... A man spitting on roads, a kid begging for something at a signal, a govt. employee running away from his duties, our politicians and the state of our nation are not only the reasons that pump me to write but also the small small things that happen around me... Its true that not all individuals think on the same lines but after observing and living closely with a few people in my life, I sometimes wonder am i crazy to think with such a broad view point or the people are creating small boundaries around it... We call Mahatma Gandhi - the fath...

This post was composed by -  Moushumi Samajdar Long long ago when I was down that day, You came by my way to make it all go away, It felt like a dream to feel something so pure, Yet i never knew if it was true for sure. Down and lonely were the nights that passed, Definitions of friends were lost in d dark, Hurt and pain was all I had, To smile again was in the past. Then one day u came to me, On a night when the gods sent gift it was to be, To nurture me in your friendship you thought, The beginning of a life, that seemed so distraught. Ever since that day I needed none, Life always seemed so much fun, I feel that it was that golden time, Which I now miss, with you as mine. Now after being friends for years to come, I faltered and hurt the one, I cared the most and always loved, Never to forgive myself unless I payed and shunned, My heart bleeds for the deed undone, Never again can I feel t...

Yes you read it right i am figuring out what friendship is. All my previous posts are about love and life but for the first time a post about friendship and not just some ordinary post a post that seeks to know what is FRIENDSHIP. I know all of you must be thinking how can i ask what friendship is when i am the one who keeps on saying it the best relationship we have on earth, Its something more than love even right? Well a recent incident just made me think a lot about it, so when you talk about a friend does that mean someone who knows all about you, who's always there for you and you say that you know each other so well that anything that on friend does can never make the other friend go mad... Well think over it again... and think about the times when you do something and get scolded by your best friend that this is wrong, you shouldn't have done that or don't do this and stuff and then one day your friend does the same thing... Remember the times when your friend does ...

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This post was composed by -  Moushumi Samajdar When you love someone so deep inside, It seems like it's so easy to hide. You've loved him for so very long, You would think he could do no wrong. Each day you  hoped and prayed, That he would keep staying this way. He treated you like you were supposed to be treated, You thought your life was finally completed. You thought your love was growing true, And till one day it went all so blue. He started putting you down and it hurt, You thought all you were to him was dirt. He started ignoring you and you wondered why, All you felt and wanted to do was curl up and die. You thought your relationship would never end, But that was all so fake and pretend and would never mend. One night he was so sweet to you, You thought all those things might be untrue, Two days later he was back the same, You thought you were the only one to blame. He thought the relationship was getting too serious And that you had become a little too...

Posted by mobile phone: "Just a random thought at the middle of night.. Pardon me for the idiotic rhyme, and understand the feeling behind..." I always thought i was different And doesn't need any other person for existence... Friends n Girl friend all were there.. But i got comfort alone at stairs... So many dreams, but so little i could do.. So many people, but alone i was that is true.. I was abnormal.. but never bothered... Coz i was different.. And needed no one for existence.. But when the cool wind blows.. And i stand in corridors... Alone i don't want to be.. But find no one along with me... Friends girl friend still there somewhere.. But that special someone nowhere... Its then when i feel.. I need someone with mee... Not a girlfriend whom i thought was different.. Not a group of friends who don't understands... A guy or a gal i don't care.. But who enjoys this air, The night and its flare... The fluttering leaves and the chimering winds... Not a word...

" Jaypee University of Information Technology " – My Alma Mater , Though I graduated just 2 months back but, life in Delhi has made me realize that, JUIT is nothing but heaven.”A home away from home.” Like I mentioned in my previous posts it’s actually when you leave that place and face the harsh realities of life you feel the importance of JUIT and the love and care it bestows upon you. Just a moment of silence takes me back to all the memories of the beautiful time spent there, and these memories make me want to go back there... Thanks to AICTE’s NBA team who visited JUIT. Actually it’s the JUIT-JBS DDM students who got the opportunity to visit JUIT for an interaction session with the NBA team and what started as an unofficial plan for me, turned official after I too got a call from Registrar Sir. It was really unbelievable; I messaged my friends again to confirm that we are really going to JUIT. Finally - 13th Feb late night - 2 taxis - 10 guys - 5 gals and the beginning ...