Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Reposting :- Proved Again {Updated}

This is a post that i wrote on January 3rd 2007, when i used to blog only when i had a bad day and some thought would be disturbing me, and my blog was one place where i used to pour out all my feelings!!!

So why am I re posting a Two and a Half year old entry, well just read this post and then I'll tell you why...
Just when i thought that my life is rocking with out any problems n tensions….. something happened which reminded me of 1 of my previous blog entry where i wrote:—

“when love invades,,,,, frenship fades….”

yes this quotation again proved to be a truth… it feels so bad when some one who is close to u, n was with u for so long.. makes u feel that love is much much imp than frenship…

I am not talking about just sm1 bt 1spl one… yes a person for whom u did so much,, u were there for her when she ws in trouble or pain or when she had a fight wd her love… bt a month long love story can break years of friendship n trust…

just think how will u feel when a fren like this who ws so close to u tells u on ur face that she has changed her cell no n she ws nt taking ny1’s call

after being asked “that why were u nt taking my calls or replying to my msgs which i hv been sending for past 1 month..”

n Even after this she tells u on your face in front of her guy that she wont give u her new no….

rule out the possibility that i did something wrong coz of which she is doing this, coz 1 of our common fren also experienced something similar to this…

well try to feel it from ur heart n i bet tears will run out of ur eyes….

moral of the story:- sm times love can break a relation called “BEST FRENS” or “FRENS FOREVER”

NOW do u still think that friends are forever…… well think again…..

do gv ur comments….

I still remember everything, how tears came down my eyes when i left her home that day, it was not just one  ordinary friend but one of my best friends who made a  fun of a 4 year old friendship just for a 4 week old relationship!!!

Why i am talking about this old story, well Its because of a call that i received, Yes her call..

She got my no. from that same common friend and called me and said "i just felt like saying sorry"..

It was a long talk, and she apologized fr what she did, and i told her the same thing that i told all my friends when this incident happened, That we were friends and it is not necessary for friend sto stay in touch all the time, even if you are not talking you are still friends. And she could have told me that time only that her relationship and her guys wants her not to talk to other guys because of all the possessiveness, I would have told her to go ahead, as your relation is most important and we'll always be friends and after all, that is what Friendship is all about happiness of your friends.. Right???

But she choose the wrong way, anyways its okk now, I forgive you, because now all this doesn't matter at all... I am glad you are happy in your life and with life,your guy!!

Have a great life!!!

1 comment:

  1. damn... heart braking it is, indeed.
    those guys who are possessive are not only jerks but also selfish to no end.

    and on top of it, leaving your friends for someone who wants you to leave them just because he/she is possessive/insecure in ridiculous! such people dont deserve to be your gf/bf/fiance/spouse if they cant trust you and your friends.