Friday, February 26, 2010

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Hey All,

Good Morning and Have a great Friday!!

Thinking about the subject line, Well that’s true, this probably the last Heavy Dose (as some of you call it) mails, I realized one thing There’s no point coming office a little early  and spending half an hour just to write this mail when half of you don’t read it and even if you do they are not doing anything GOOD.

Its not an assumption it’s a experience based fact…  If you have decided you can’t do it, you really can’t.. If you love being sad then even  if I turn up wearing a joker dress and red nose that cant make you a happy person, maybe for a few hours but after that you’ll go back to being what you are!!!

 Someone has rightly said , in order to say even the right thing, you have to be at the right place… “People don’t become big by what they say, what big people say becomes BIG!!!”  Even if I say the same thing that Vineet said in a Interview yesterday, nobody would be interested but when he says the same thing people believe!!!

 But that doesn’t mean I Quit, my positive attitude towards life is still intact , My energy level is still the same and if any of you need those heavy dose words you are always welcome but only when you need it.

 Action speaks louder than words – well the words end here – Actions begin!!!

 Take care and Enjoy Life – Be calm, Be patient and Self Confident!! Keep smiling always!!! :)

Ending it with a few lines I composed a few days back!!!

“Sometimes I just feel like running away from this City, breaking all the strings - switching my life with a click and getting disappeared into the dark woods or the magnificent hills... Away from the people among whom I question the reason for my existence... Why I have become so diff. that I require someone for coexistence... Why can't dreams come true and grant me at least one thing I wish to do.”

P.S :-  From now on i won't be sending mails but instead will cont. to write on this blog almost everyday!!!

How can you stay Positive all the time?

Hey all,

Good Morning and May the day turns out to be one of the best for you!!!

 Yesterday someone asked me :- How can you stay Positive all the time and so charged up?

I would really like to share this with all of you, the reason why I Stay positive and fully charged up every morning is because of YOU, Yes you read it right its because of you people.

Every Morning when I wake up, I am happy for the most simple reason that God gave me another day to Enjoy, I always say it you never know what’s going to happen in Future what you have with you is a Present called Today – Live it up!!

You think your life has problems, well Look around whose Life is perfect, just because someone is smiling doesn’t mean his/her life is perfect.

Every Morning when I enter My office and the Guards at the entrance Stands and smiles and wishes Good Morning, That’s the start of a great day – Is there life problem free? I Doubt that so if they can still manage to Give a smile why can’t You!!

But I am also Human by the end of the day I am also frustrated because of things and I also feel my life has problems, and its when You guys play the most important role in my LIFE… Being there with me!! No mater how bad the day is, the happiness I get when I meet my friends in evening just refreshes me and charge me all over again And when I see problems around me , my own problems looks really small!!

1 Golden Rule – Do what your heart says, Be adjusting but don’t compromise and never ever go against your principles!!

 If you really want do something just do it and that involves choosing your career , just give it a shot, take a risk – trust me your Well wishers , family and your best buddies will always be there to catch you even if you fall but don’t stop yourself From Flying if you really want to!!!

No Job in the world is problem free, every thing comes with pros and cons – even America’s President face problems!!  You think Govt. jobs are fun ask your elders what all they have been through to get there where you see them now. If you really really want do something – trust me its never too late to pursue your PASSION!!! It might not pay you much but the satisfaction that you’ll get when you do something from your heart is beyond compare. Yeh mat socho ki koyi kya kahega, kya sochega – Its your Life and Your Journey – Live it up!!

I received a SMS yesterday  that goes like this “Bina libaas aaye the hum iss Jahaan mein… Bus ek kafan ki khatir itna safar kiye ja rahe hain” Nice message and I agree Life is a journey from Birth to Death but what matters is what Little extra you did in between, how will people remember you? And you can’t escape this journey so if you have to travel why not just Enjoy it!!!

Will really appreciate your comments!!!

The Choice is Your's

Hey all,

 A very GOOODD MORNINGGG… I Am sure you will have a really beautiful day!!

 Like I always say, You never know what’s going to happen the very next moment, Something’s are beyond our control you can’t fight Destiny…  So the time you arrive and the time you leave its already fixed you can’t change it so what you are left with is the time in between.

What matters most is how you use this time that you have right now…  You can just spend it crying or can do things because of which people will remember you even when you are gone!!!  “You can just keep on reading Success story’s of others or you can write your own – The Choice is yours!!”

 Trust me Its really a special day  - At least 4 me So Give it a shot do something a lil different today and Make your Life an inspiration for others!!


Heloooooooooooo ,  What’s Up people!!!

Thanks to all those who mailed me saying “They Missed my mails”… & for the rest of you – Kabhi nahin sudhroge!!!

Some of you often ask me Do I write these mails on my own, Well the answer is NO..  Its actually when I interact with some of you or observe things around me, or even because of things that Go on in my LIFE, Its because of all these things that forms these mails!!! So Its not only me who is writing all this, Its involves YOU also!!! 

Quitting & Ignoring are the easiest things to do in any situation, but Do you think That’s the answer to all your problems!! Well I don’t think so, as a matter of fact a problem ignored is something that will come back to you as an even bigger problem!!!

Don’t let anyone make you do something that you don’t want to but before you judge that take a close second look and give it a try, Start with a positive note that Yes - You can do it, Set your priorities right. Don’t over burden yourself and nothing at the cost of your health and  your biggest wealth – Your family!!!

Just try to keep things light, only if you have interest in something its only then you’ll be able to do that task!! Just keep smiling , keep calm and yet confident, Understand the Rules and play the game!! Success will be Yours!!! :)

Dil dard ka samander hai, Fir bhi Laboon pe Muskaan Hai – Jeena Issi Ka naam hai

“Dil dard ka samander hai, Fir bhi Laboon pe Muskaan Hai – Jeena Issi Ka naam hai… Baabu Jeena issi ka naam hai…”

Remember How many times we crib about how bad our life is, how bad our office is and what not… We go to the extent that we tell our family and friends that you are lucky, you have a great life!!!

Look around and take a close look, LiFe can never be perfect just like all the fingers of a hand can never be of same size…  Just because a person is smiling that doesn’t mean his/her life is perfect…  A smiling face can also have a lot of pain hidden inside somewhere, still they smile and keep walking.

I won’t say be over positive and stay happy with everything , of course not  but “when you are among the NEGATIVES Don’t forget your POSITIVES” 

Thoda aur wish karo, aage bado but aankho mein aansun liye nhin labhon pe muskaan liye…  Khushiyan baante chulo – The journey will be much more comfortable!!!

 Wishing you all a very Happy Morning and a beautiful day ahead!!!

Kuch Meetha Ho jaye!!!

> This mail was sent on chocolates day!!!<

Thank you God for another beautiful day, for giving me another day to send one more mail!!!

 Good Morning People, How you doin’  this Chocolaty morning!!!

Indeed someone has very rightly said “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery, today is a gift and that’s why its called a present”  , This day is seriously a present, you can control ‘N’ no. of things in Life but you just can’t control Life itself… It’s a mystery what will happen the very next moment so Enjoy what you have today, in this very moment… Jiyo is pal ko , Good aur Bad yeh pal bhi guzar jayega and then you can’t get it back no matter how Successful you are or how rich you are, you just can’t get it back…!!

 So Jo bhi gile shikve hain sab bhula do, Don’t keep enemies, Keep aside your Ego and make things right, Even if that involves saying Sorry, Don’t keep things in your heart and don’t sleep over a problem coz you never know whether you’ll be able to see that person again or not and then my dear friend you’ll regret that you wasted your life just because of some stupid fight or Thanks to Ego.

Life is short, Live it up!! Do a lil more work Today, Make a few good relations today, Sort out differences Today, Smile a lil more Today!! Coz Today Kal Ho Na Ho!!!

Wishing you all a great day ahead.. and  HAPPY CHOCOLATES DAY!!!

P.S – Don’t ask me for Chocolates!!!

Don't be Impulsive, Be Impressive...

In my last post I wrote some self composed lines in Hindi, don’t know how many of you read it but trust me Practically speaking those lines are very true.. The essence of those lines were “the power is not in the speaker/ writer and not even in the words… Its actually in the Listener/reader and the way they interpret it!!! No matter how good or bad you write or how beautiful words you choose there are of no use, until the person you are telling it to can’t understand or even worse Misunderstands!!

Be careful with what you write , what you speak because you never know which word  of yours can just destroy everything!!

Take Care and keep smiling!!!

Random Thought!!

“Log kehte hain Shabdon mein bahut taqat hai... yeh Lafz chahen to Dil badal

sakte hain insaan badal sakte hain aur to aur yeh poora mulkh badal sakte


Yeh lafz to aapke bhi hain aur hamare bhi par fir kyun, na hum dil

badal paye aur na hi insaan..

Jab badal gaye lafz aur na badle mulkh tab

jana asli taqat na to un lafzon mein hai aur na hi unhe kehne walon mein..

Agar taqat hai to sirf un lafzaon ko samjhne walon mein.. Agar taqat hai to

sirf un lafzon ko samjhne walon mein!!!”

Warning Challenges Ahead


How you doin’ today…  Still Cribbing about job and your role in an organization!!!

Well well people I know it doesn’t feel nice when you are just put into things without your consent…

A lot of time we say, I was good at that and they put me here..  To some extent you are right but then As a fresher I don’t think you know what you are good at!!!


 All I’ll advise is Be Open to challenges…  And do your best in whatever roll you are assigned to, be open to Change and don’t just restrict yourself to one particular role, Experiment because this is the time when you can actually take a risk and can learn many different things and then Ask yourself what you love Doing the most…

Be a little patient things sometimes takes a bit longer to change but something good must be coming your way make sure you are Smiling when it comes or else you’ll miss it too because you were deeply involved in your self created Mess!!! :) :)

Amidst The Fog!!!

Did you smile today? If not do it now!!!  I don’t know how many of you actually read my mails but if you are reading this.. wishing you a great day ahead!

 Its really Foggy outside, but amidst the Dense Fog try to find the Beauty, your dreams..  The path to fulfill those dreams…  It might be a lil dark, you might sometime have to travel alone through the dark woods or deep sea but hey if the path is all bed of roses I think you are on the wrong way.. Create your own path, write your own destiny… There’ll be people who’ll De-motivate you or point fingers at you trust me that’s the proof that you are on the right track..  Just give them a smile and ignore what they say and Keep marching towards the Mission!!!

Don’t worry no matter what path you travel on you’ll have your best friends, your well wishers with you always…  So stay Calm yet Confident and Keep Smiling… :) :) :)