~IT's My L!Fe~

Sitting in my balcony on a bean bag with  purple and green chinese string lights covering the entire balcony like a roof over my head and while humming the song 🎶Mere Mehboob Qayamat hogi aaj ruswa tere darr se inayat hogi 🎶 i browse through my Facebook timeline and this ad from Urban Ladder showing different collection of furniture 🛋️ that in itself gives a particular look and feel to your home made me think about this chase. The Chase we all are a part of, that wants us to keep running to earn more money💰. The Chase to acquire all this stuff that we think will bring more comfort to our lives. And even though you can afford it you think about another chase, the Chase to have a house 🏠 of our own where we'll keep all these modern designer stuff and will chill, enjoy and have a great life after office hours. The truth is even if you fullfill one chase another one sucks you in. You have a house of your own and slowly you...

वक़्त, नाजाने कितने ही जाने अंजाने सवालों के जवाब छुपाये बैठे हो तुम... कुछ सवाल तो हम भी भूले बैठे थे, नाजाने क्यों वो सवाल याद दिला जाते हो तुम। मुस्कुराते हुए बैठे थे हम, नाजाने कहाँ से आँखों के किनारे वो एक आंसू ले आते हो तुम... वक़्त, नजाने कितने ही सवालों के जवाब छुपाये बैठे हो तुम।।। Waqt, najane kitne hi jane anjane sawalon ke jawab chupaye baithe ho tum... Kuch sawal to hum bhi bhule baithe the, najane kyun wo sawal yaad dila jate ho tum... Muskurata huye baithe the hum na jane khan se aankhon ke kinare wo ek aansu le aate ho tum.. Waqt, najane kitne hi sawalon ke jawab chupaye baithe ho tum!!!

The winds kept flowing and the yacht kept sailing... Sailing in the uncharted waters, With no direction and no destination... The view was amazing and the music of freedom refreshing... you fell in love with the wind and forgot your way.. The path that was destined for you, That you shall have to take.. Coz that's a commitment you have made, even though that's not what your heart says... The wind stopped and so did the yacht... you came back to senses and got off before its too late.. the wind and water is what you still crave... But you stop your breath and settle for the fate..  Give up on the love for winds and water and tell the world that's what you hate... No am not blaming you.. How can I... you were the victim here... A victim of clueless wind, A victim of carefree water... A victim of beautiful view, A victim of sweet music... The winds will flow again and so will the yacht.. You won't sail on it and will look when it will pass.. There wil...

I Love You, the three misused, over used words in our country, We all have heard it, used it but do we actually mean it? On every corner of street you'll fine some romeo try to say the same to one or the other girl & if saying was not enough you'll find it engraved on trees, historic monuments, so much so on your school/college benches and also not to forget the infamous boys washrooms! Very often the words are misused, we use I Love you when we should actually be using, I Like you as in most cases it just starts with merely infatuation but considering our country people should actually say I Lust for you 'coz that what they actually mean, its pure and simple attraction and not an emotional one but LUST in most of the cases. Not that i do not believe in Love, it sure exists but the dynamics have changed, it is more about convenience, not many have the energy or devotion to handle it, but you can't blame them, life is now a rat race, it has become all about ac...

Zindagi mano doraha pe aa kar thum gayi ho jaise... Ek raha pe jane ki izzazt nhin, dusri pe jane ko dil nhin... Dard ka khel bhi nirala hai.. Ek taraf pana aur dusre pe de jana hai.. Aaina rakh diya ho samne mano jaise.. Kabhi muskurate hain to kabhi ro lete hain.. Khin dur ek raha aur nazar aati hai.. Ghor andhere ke aage ek loh nazar aati hai.. Jana aasan nhin aur kal ki khabhar nhin.. Ek khushnuma kal ya gum ka tarana hai.. Is doraha se aage jana hai.. Thoda dard le jana hai aur thoda de jana hai... Is Doraha se aage jana hai...

Ek Aur Raat Guzar Gayi, Ek Aur Savera Shuru Hua... Ek Aur Din Jee Liye, Ek Aur Din Maut Ke Karib Hua...

 1-1-11 is here... A new year a new day unfortunately I woke up after noon and most of the day has already passed but does it make a difference... Well hell yes because till 31-12-2010 I had so many plans for the year to come but sitting here writing this post I don’t feel any difference except for the fact that if I manage to post this it’ll be a big thing for me as It’ll mean that I have overcome the writer’s block. I might not be an awesome writer like some of my friends especially Varun and Hundoo but I also hit that wall at times… Coming back to the year’s game if I didn’t have the No liking and joining stupid application and pages policy I would have joined the recently surfaced “ 2011 IS ALREADY SCREWED UP. I CAN’T WAIT FOR 2012 ” group on Facebook. The starting of 2010 like every year was absolutely normal if not exciting, I had a good job at least enough to keep the so called near and dear ones silent… But by the end of year I have seen the true colors of an IT company… It’s...

Hey All, Its after such a long time I am writing something.. but don’t worry its just a few lines.. I always say Life is uncertain, it can be short or long but will always be a mystery…  What’s gone is gone and what will happen that nobody knows!!! What you have is Today.. You may never get 100% of whatever you dream but you can give your 100%  to achieve them!!!   Unfortunately that’s reality!! Always Remember :- Live Xtreme {Not recommended for all} Sometimes answers to the most complicated problems can be either Yes or No, Don’t complicate things with Jalebi Answers!! Trust comes from transparency & that’s the backbone of every relation!! There’s no point assuming things in background when you can just clear out things face 2 face!!! I’ll end this post with these lines –   “No matter what the reason is, no matter what the season is – A smile is what I love the most and not just for now but for a life time…”   ~KEEP WALKING – KEEP SMILING~

Hey all,  A very GOOODD MORNINGGG… I Am sure you will have a really beautiful day!!   Like I always say, You never know what’s going to happen the very next moment, Something’s are beyond our control you can’t fight Destiny…  So the time you arrive and the time you leave its already fixed you can’t change it so what you are left with is the time in between. What matters most is how you use this time that you have right now…  You can just spend it crying or can do things because of which people will remember you even when you are gone!!!   “You can just keep on reading Success story’s of others or you can write your own – The Choice is yours!!”   Trust me Its really a special day  - At least 4 me So Give it a shot do something a lil different today and Make your Life an inspiration for others!!

Hey!! How you doin’ today…  Still Cribbing about job and your role in an organization!!! Well well people I know it doesn’t feel nice when you are just put into things without your consent… A lot of time we say, I was good at that and they put me here..  To some extent you are right but then As a fresher I don’t think you know what you are good at!!!    All I’ll advise is Be Open to challenges…  And do your best in whatever roll you are assigned to, be open to Change and don’t just restrict yourself to one particular role, Experiment because this is the time when you can actually take a risk and can learn many different things and then Ask yourself what you love Doing the most… Be a little patient things sometimes takes a bit longer to change but something good must be coming your way make sure you are Smiling when it comes or else you’ll miss it too because you were deeply involved in your self created Mess!!! :) :)

This article is dedicated to All my friends who are working now or have just started their career and to all my friends who are in the final years of their College life an will soon be market ready!! With just 4 months of experience in a Telecom company and 1 week in an IT company,  many of you will say i am no one to write this , in that case take this article about the ATTITUDE with which i want to start my career. Your immediate response will be "Spend a few months in this industry and then we'll see whether you crib {complain} or not!!" or "Every organisation is not the same, maybe you are lucky" Well guys to start with why is it that we have no end to Expectations, i understand that we all should have expectations from our life, our organisations, our managers but does that mean nothing in this world meets your expectations.. I mean you enter a new place and start complaining that they don't pay well, they don't have good chairs or goo...

My sincere apologies to all my readers for not updating my blog for a long time.. but that doesn't mean i have stopped thinking or my heart has stopped working... As i always say Whenever a thought strikes your heart and soul never let it go waste convert it into words... Since its a little difficult to blog then and there, i tried to convert those thoughts in SMS and here are a few msgs that i composed whenever i found myself lonely... Kehte hain Duniya simat si gayi hai... Chund taaron se judh si gayi hai... Par is mobile aur net ki duniya mein, humne to khudko bheed mein bhi tanha paya hai.. Do ghoont pine ke baad rota paya hai.. Kisi ke intezaar mein waqt ko bhool gaye hain, Intezaar kiska hai ab to yeh bhi bhool gaye hain... Hamari nazaron se dekho duniya bikhar si gayi hai, Taaron ke jaal mein Fus si gayi hai... Yeh Rishte bhi kitne ajeeb hote hain na??? Kab kisse jud jaye iski khabar hi khan hone dete hain... Kis baat se toot jayen yeh kisko pata... Ehmiyat inki tab pata chu...

This is a post that i wrote on January 3rd 2007, when i used to blog only when i had a bad day and some thought would be disturbing me, and my blog was one place where i used to pour out all my feelings!!! So why am I re posting a Two and a Half year old entry, well just read this post and then I'll tell you why... Just when i thought that my life is rocking with out any problems n tensions….. something happened which reminded me of 1 of my previous blog entry where i wrote:— “when love invades,,,,, frenship fades….” yes this quotation again proved to be a truth… it feels so bad when some one who is close to u, n was with u for so long.. makes u feel that love is much much imp than frenship… I am not talking about just sm1 bt 1spl one… yes a person for whom u did so much,, u were there for her when she ws in trouble or pain or when she had a fight wd her love… bt a month long love story can break years of friendship n trust… just think how will u feel when a fren like this who ws s...

Posted by mobile phone: Lying on my bed here at my new small room in delhi and reading Mainak Dhar's "the fundas of mix-ology" made me recall a phone call that came an hour back. It was a call from a very good friend Sohit, reminding me about a small yet quite special moment that happened same day, same time last year. I couldn't stop myself from writing this blog entry even at a time when i don't have a proper net connection but like they say if a thought comes to your mind don't wait to put it on your blog because once that moment passes trust me you can never write about it. So writing this entry with the help of my best friend, my nokia 6300.It was the same day 30th jan last year, gandhi ji's death anniversary {i didn't knew about this last year and even this year and trust me i am ashamed of myself for this} a dry day. But the plan was set for Sohit to sip in first vodka of his life and as he just told me he was out today to have some drinks but c...

Its Jan 1,2009... A new year,a new day,a new beginning... But before this new start let me first thank all those who made my 2008 so special....  My thanks to all my friends who made every moment worth living... Special thanks to HCL and in particular Sandhaya mam for giving me an opportunity to work for HCL... frankly speaking that was the biggest day of my life... Thank thanks to my teachers, HOD sir and Medury sir because of whom i am what i am today.. yes An Engineer and above all with a respectable CGPA of 6.2... It was really unbelievable when i saw 8.9 SGPA in my 8th sem examination...   But this year was not all about these happy and successful moments but actually a very tragic or should i say the worst year of my life and in particular the date 11th August the day my Grandfather Sh. Lekh Raj gera passed away... If it would have been a natural death then i wont have written all this It was a shocking Accident...  I remember My grandfather once said "the day I'll die t...

Ack:- Moushmi When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know What I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. Th...

Finally its here, the day I was waiting for past 1 year... last year same day someone said yes to me and changed my life, she added colors to my life, a smile on my face and made me realize that this life is worth living and is quite beautiful got the love of my life after a waiting for complete 4 years... The wait was worth it as the 1 year I spent with her was the best time of my life something I can never forget but a fool can never realize the worth of true love and I think am definitely  the biggest fool... People tell me that no one can understand women the way you do, you have a women's heart but I proved them wrong... I made her go away made her to leave me I broke up with her 2 days back...  Yes it was my own doings that made her to leave me... I still don’t know what got into me maybe its all the tension that I am taking about her career which she's not taking seriously or is it something related to my own dreams that I want to fulfill but why can't I fulfill them...

Source:- ये मेरी लाईफ है - चिराग मेहता Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven’t,as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements ; One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life ; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name; One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen ; One, who is expected to make the...

welll to start withh..lets cont..with my last entry... well am over with that bad moment of my life.. it ws all full of pain n why not??? something like this nt expected from a 4yr old fren... bt i guess this is life.. u can nt trust ny1.. bt as sm1 told me "v nvr get wt v want... v nvr wnt wht we gt... v nvr hv wht v like... v nvr like wht v hv... stil v live... stil v luv... stil v hope.... this is life" ... so am over wd it hmm but i dont thing i can ever forget those memories.... "waise aaj fir kisi ki yaad aayi hai... in hawaon ke saath kisi ki khushboo aayi hai.... to kya hua wo saath nahin... km se km unki yaadein to unki tareh nahin!!!!" hmm this is i guess my destiny... only the persom whom i love the most.. whom i hv always taken as my best fren.... leaves me... i guess its better nt to care for ny1... aaj such mein i am missing 2 ppl a lot!!! 1 to samne hokar bhi saath nahin n dusra door hai pr use humari yaad nahin.... bt something which...

jst whn i thot that my life is rocking wdout ny probs n tensions..... something happened which reminded me of 1 of mine previous blog entry where i wrote:--- "when love invades,,,,, frenship fades...." yes this quotation again proved to be a truth... it feels so bad when some 1 who is close to u,,n ws with u for so long.. makes u feel that love is much much imp than frenship... am nt talking abt just sm1 bt 1spl one... yes a person for whom u did so much,, u were there for her whn she ws in trouble or pain or whn she had a fight wd her love... bt a month long love story can break years of frenship n trust... jst think how will u feel whn a fren like this who ws so close to u tells u on ur face that she has changed her cell no n she ws nt takng ny1's call after being asked "that why were u nt taking my calls or replying to my msgs which i hv been sending for past 1 month.." n evn after this she tells u that she wont giv...