Monday, March 30, 2009

FRIENDSHIP - What is it exactly???

Broken friendship



Yes you read it right i am figuring out what friendship is. All my previous posts are about love and life but for the first time a post about friendship and not just some ordinary post a post that seeks to know what is FRIENDSHIP.

I know all of you must be thinking how can i ask what friendship is when i am the one who keeps on saying it the best relationship we have on earth, Its something more than love even right?

Well a recent incident just made me think a lot about it, so when you talk about a friend does that mean someone who knows all about you, who's always there for you and you say that you know each other so well that anything that on friend does can never make the other friend go mad...

Well think over it again... and think about the times when you do something and get scolded by your best friend that this is wrong, you shouldn't have done that or don't do this and stuff and then one day your friend does the same thing...

Remember the times when your friend does something and you get irritated and they'll tell you to be a sport and when one day you do something and they get mad, i wonder now where did that mantra they used to keep telling you "Be a sport"

Still the same question what exactly is friendship..  its nothing but shit!!!

Does friendship means you throw a glass full of ice tea on your friends face, when he has done nothing... well yes you can but only if you can throw it and sit there and laugh over it, thats called being a sport and not that you throw it and then you walk away making a mockery of your dearest friend in front of  total strangers who will start looking at you as if you have done a blunder...

Whatever it is, friendship doesn't give  anyone the  right to make such a fun of  me in public... and i don't care how close you are to me i don't take shit from any one...

I am sorry but You can't just do something like this and say sorry and blame it on some reason that even you are not bothered about...

Friendship is still a beautiful word but not that good of a relation, even if it is I DON'T GIVE A DAMM!!!

P.S:- Now don't just fill up the comments section with essay's about friendship, Theoretically its really a very precious relation because people can write books and make 10 bloody seasons of  TV shows and earn millions.. Be realistic and write practically..

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UPDATE:- When i say that words have power i really mean it, and its not that only a selected people have that power but actually all of us... all it takes is some serious emotions, if you really feel something from the core of your heart you can turn it into words too...
After all this happened my mind started working with double speed and the fire that i had inside me was fueling it.. I needed something to ease me and like always my blog was the first thing i thought about and i wrote all this shit here...

But an email just changed everything, every word in that mail touched me and my mind which was on fire has gone blank.... Friendship its such a difficult thing, you can't even stay angry for long.. your friends won't let you even..

You can spend your entire life but still you wont be able to figure out what friendship, love, and relationship is!!!

Don't know what should i write now.. all i can say is FRIENDS you are my life!!!

P.S:- I won't forgive you until i throw a glass full of ICE TEA on you...
and sorry readers for what i wrote about the 10 seasons of the show F.R.I.E.N.D.S.  i just love that show...

10 comments:

  1. hey....Its simply a pain from one of "FRIEND" made you said so ( my belief )...friendship is not a shit, and i must say friends never gives shit to friends...its a bonding by choice and develop by choice... ya, love is also by choice..but everyone is not as fortunate as you and me..
    similarly, a mail from the same friend changed fire to a blank...
    "y just one is such a driving force in life"....this is called friendship...

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  2. yaar tum to justified ho.......aur koi tumhari jagah hota to itni jaldi ye sb kbi na bhulta.......atleast main to ni kr skti aur na hi i cn 4give so easily
    nt evrybdy's lik u vaibhav......i admire ds quality bt ds is sumthn i may nvr learn

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  3. hey vaibhav...i totally liked ur blog....coz m goin thru the same thing rite now...n feel totally like shit....though not everyone is lucky like u....i dnt even xpect my frnds to call me bck n say sorry....i guess this is the way my life has been...always....n i dnt even knw whom to blame for this....m totally in a fix....

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  4. @shruti, First of all thanks for reading n thankis for the comment.. i am really sorry to know about your present situation but shruti.. i tell you 1 thing life is too short to blame yourelf or anyone for anything insted just enjoy you life as much as you can... And if you think in your life you haven't got some good frens than i would say just look around again maybe you are not looking in the right direction or you are expecting way too much.. Friendship is not about being with a person just like you its about being with ppl who care for you ad help you enjoy your life.. n nobody get smaller by saying sorry infact thr should not be need to say sorry to your best buddies.. you have fight at one time and after a few moments hen you meet again you just hug each other and laugh about it.. thats wht friendship is all about.. if you have ppl who bring there ego's b/w friendship then i guess thr's no point of getting sad infact just look around find your friends coz you are wasting time with soemone who was never your friend!!
    Enjoy!!

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