This morning, while taking care of some important business in the bathroom, I noticed a spider desperately trying to climb the wall.
It would make some progress, slip a little, try again, slip again. It looked like a terrible climber.
A few hours later, my wife was venting about office bureaucracy. You know the kind. The places where people in positions of power seem more interested in protecting their territory than helping others succeed. The kind of environment where someone’s growth is viewed as a threat rather than an achievement.
And suddenly I thought about that spider.
Maybe the spider wasn’t a bad climber.
Maybe it was just climbing the wrong damn wall.
Think about it.
A bathroom is literally a room full of people shitting. The walls are smooth. The environment is hostile. Nobody walks into a bathroom hoping to admire the architectural brilliance of a spider web. Even if the spider somehow succeeded, nobody would celebrate it.
Now put that same spider in a forest.
It climbs a tree.
It finds the perfect spot.
It builds an incredible web.
Wildlife photographers stop to capture it. Nature lovers admire it. The web becomes part of an ecosystem.
The spider didn’t suddenly become more talented.
The environment changed.
The same thing happens in organizations.
In toxic cultures, ambitious people are labelled as political. High performers are seen as threats. Managers protect their turf. Bureaucracy becomes more important than outcomes.
The talented spider spends all its energy trying not to fall off the bathroom wall.
In healthy cultures, people are encouraged to climb. Leaders remove obstacles instead of creating them. Success is shared. Growth is celebrated.
The same spider that looked incompetent in one environment suddenly looks exceptional in another.
And here’s the uncomfortable truth:
A lot of organizations spend years trying to “fix” their people when the real problem is the wall.
Sometimes when someone isn’t thriving, the question isn’t:
“What’s wrong with them?”
It’s:
“Why are we expecting them to build a masterpiece in a room full of people taking a dump?”
The spider wasn’t failing.
It was climbing the wrong wall.
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