~IT's My L!Fe~

Source:- Ye Meri Life Hai I remember the incident - I was in a restaurant and one girl in our group was especially charming. So I, like any other male, tried to put on a wooing act. You know the routine, a nanosecond extra eye contact, a few more nods to whatever she says, and attempts to throw in those one-liners which you know you wouldn’t if she weren’t there. And it seemed to be working. She leaned forward when she spoke to me, and every now and again, we’d have a small conversation of our own, separate from our group. She laughed at my approach with the fork and knife, and I teased her about her hair band, which had little teddy bears. Yes, we were flirting. A while later, she asked me the question what did I study? I said engineering, without any particular meaning attached to it. And then like a cold metal rail, she went stiff.My jokes weren’t funny any more. Her eyes wandered to everyone else. What was it? Why? Why? Why? Two days later, I still couldn’t get over my great start ...

SOURCE:- ये मेरी लाईफ है - chirag mehta *thanks chirag for posting such wonderful n inspiring articles* I t was probably the April of 1974. Bangalore was getting warm and gulmohars were blooming at the IISc campus. I was the only girl in my postgraduate department and was staying at the ladies’ hostel. Other girls were pursuing research in different departments of Science. I was looking forward to going abroad to complete a doctorate in computer science. I had been offered scholarships from Universities in the US. I had not thought of taking up a job in India. One day, while on the way to my hostel from our lecture-hall complex, I saw an advertisement on the notice board. It was a standard job-requirement notice from the famous automobile company Telco (now Tata Motors). It stated that the company required young, bright engineers, hardworking and with an excellent academic background, etc. At the bottom was a small line: “Lady candidates need not apply.” I read it and was very upset....

Source:- ये मेरी लाईफ है - चिराग मेहता Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven’t,as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements ; One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life ; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name; One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen ; One, who is expected to make the...

'You told me you loved me I told you I loved back You broke my heart And you don't feel bad I definitely had you once And want you back but all you will do Is say you love me Then you will just deny it How the fuck do you think I feel Not to good Not to well So why don't you go to hell' ( source )

one of my old frinds and regular reader of this blog just mailed me lil something in gujrati after reading my recent entries.... it goes like this... ખુશ નથી છતાં ખુશ રહેવુ પડે છે કોઇ પુછે કેમ છે તો મજામા કહેવ પડે છે દિલ મ થયા હજારો જખ્મો છતા હસતા રહેવુ પડે છે જીન્દગી એક નાટક છે બરબાદ થઇ ને પન જીવવુ પડે છે {Khush nathi chata Khush rehvu pade che koi puche kem che to majama kehvu pade che dil ma thaya hajaro jakhamo chata hasta rehvu pade che Jindgi ek natak che barbaad thai ne pan jivavu pade che} transltion:- khush nahi hai fir bhi khush rehna padta hai koi puche kaise hai, to bhi kehna padta hai maze me hain dile me hue hai hazaro zakham fir bhi haste rehna padta hai jivan ek natak hai fir bhi barbad hoke bhi jina padta hai looks like she described my entire blog in just a few lines... nyways my fren thanks for the wonderful lines...

"love at first sight" a poem i came to know from the movie "turn left turn right" that really touched my heart... Love at First Sight by Wislawa Szymborska They both thought that a sudden feeling had united them This certainty is beautiful, Even more beautiful than uncertainty. They thought they didn't know each other, nothing had ever happened between them, These streets, these stairs, this corridors, Where they could have met so long ago? I would like to ask them, if they can remember - perhaps in a revolving door face to face one day? A "sorry" in the crowd? "Wrong number" on the 'phone? - but I know the answer. No, they don't remember. How surprised they would be For such a long time already Fate has been playing with them. Not quite yet ready to change into destiny, which brings them nearer and yet further, cutting their path and stifling a laugh, escaping ever further...

hey lots of stuff to talk about but will discuss some other day... lots of stuff happened.. like getting my lost love back... n the best part she still loves me but no relationship possible now.. also.. ups n downs or should i say bad bad time in some1's life who are close to me.. then above all... me getting very serious 4 d person i always say is wrong for me ... n having the best moments of my life wd her.. or should i say past 17 days should keep on repeating again n again... n 2day is that unfortunate day when it all ended... maybe the shortest love story of my life....... will talk bout all this later ya shayad na bhi kar paun...