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Why am i attracted to a person i know isn't good???

well this is the question that was going through my mind.. n i don't remember since when.. but 2day i got its answer while watching a movie "the holiday"... n trust me its so true here what the answer says:--

ans- "because you are hoping you are wrong & every time she does something that tells you that she is no good,you ignore it & every time she comes through n surprises you,she wins you over n you loose the argument with yourself that she is not for you!!!"

let me also include some more lines from the movie:--

And on top of that, there's the old standby, 'I can't believe a girl like that would actually be with a guy like me.'"

Okay, so it's a quote from a particularly bad movie, but it's helping at the moment.

If you're not hurting anyone, then, no matter who you are, no matter where you are in life, be it successful or struggling, rich or poor, jock or nerd, you have the right to a basic level of kindness and respect. You have the right to pursue happiness.

hmm what u think isn't it correct....


  1. Well, in time your find someone better . So, don't settle for just anyone. Especially, if they aren't treating with respect and kindness. Also, 100% geniuine feelings. They aren't worthy of your attention if they aren't being a positive vibe in your life. I wouldn't waste any time , but I can see how attraction can blind you. I've fallen for wrong types myself. I keep giving excuses and then it's in my face the negativity of this person . It's true we all seem to attract to bad. We get attractive to the bad types because they are the complete opposite and intruege the wondering. Mostly, bad are drawn to good people and vice versa. You have a right to get someone who will make you feel good inside & out soul and spiritually . So, remind yourself to look past this person and someone better if it isn't going anywhere. I feel your pain as i've had to deal with this struggle , but I keep reminding myself everytime i'm tempted. I guess we all can't be with who we wish to be with. I've been in your state & it's just hurt me each time i've fallen back. Sometimes, it's not a wish come true . So, there's reasons behind why it doesn't work off. You will find that out in the long end . I have slowly lol, but I keep looking back and wishing like you it was the opposite end. My family & friends tell me i'm worthy of someone greater good and not waste time. You are too! Though, whatever you choose make sure it makes you happy. :)


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