~IT's My L!Fe~

SOURCE:- ये मेरी लाईफ है - chirag mehta *thanks chirag for posting such wonderful n inspiring articles* I t was probably the April of 1974. Bangalore was getting warm and gulmohars were blooming at the IISc campus. I was the only girl in my postgraduate department and was staying at the ladies’ hostel. Other girls were pursuing research in different departments of Science. I was looking forward to going abroad to complete a doctorate in computer science. I had been offered scholarships from Universities in the US. I had not thought of taking up a job in India. One day, while on the way to my hostel from our lecture-hall complex, I saw an advertisement on the notice board. It was a standard job-requirement notice from the famous automobile company Telco (now Tata Motors). It stated that the company required young, bright engineers, hardworking and with an excellent academic background, etc. At the bottom was a small line: “Lady candidates need not apply.” I read it and was very upset....

Source:- ये मेरी लाईफ है - चिराग मेहता Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven’t,as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements ; One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life ; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name; One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen ; One, who is expected to make the...

'You told me you loved me I told you I loved back You broke my heart And you don't feel bad I definitely had you once And want you back but all you will do Is say you love me Then you will just deny it How the fuck do you think I feel Not to good Not to well So why don't you go to hell' ( source )

one of my old frinds and regular reader of this blog just mailed me lil something in gujrati after reading my recent entries.... it goes like this... ખુશ નથી છતાં ખુશ રહેવુ પડે છે કોઇ પુછે કેમ છે તો મજામા કહેવ પડે છે દિલ મ થયા હજારો જખ્મો છતા હસતા રહેવુ પડે છે જીન્દગી એક નાટક છે બરબાદ થઇ ને પન જીવવુ પડે છે {Khush nathi chata Khush rehvu pade che koi puche kem che to majama kehvu pade che dil ma thaya hajaro jakhamo chata hasta rehvu pade che Jindgi ek natak che barbaad thai ne pan jivavu pade che} transltion:- khush nahi hai fir bhi khush rehna padta hai koi puche kaise hai, to bhi kehna padta hai maze me hain dile me hue hai hazaro zakham fir bhi haste rehna padta hai jivan ek natak hai fir bhi barbad hoke bhi jina padta hai looks like she described my entire blog in just a few lines... nyways my fren thanks for the wonderful lines...

"love at first sight" a poem i came to know from the movie "turn left turn right" that really touched my heart... Love at First Sight by Wislawa Szymborska They both thought that a sudden feeling had united them This certainty is beautiful, Even more beautiful than uncertainty. They thought they didn't know each other, nothing had ever happened between them, These streets, these stairs, this corridors, Where they could have met so long ago? I would like to ask them, if they can remember - perhaps in a revolving door face to face one day? A "sorry" in the crowd? "Wrong number" on the 'phone? - but I know the answer. No, they don't remember. How surprised they would be For such a long time already Fate has been playing with them. Not quite yet ready to change into destiny, which brings them nearer and yet further, cutting their path and stifling a laugh, escaping ever further...

hey lots of stuff to talk about but will discuss some other day... lots of stuff happened.. like getting my lost love back... n the best part she still loves me but no relationship possible now.. also.. ups n downs or should i say bad bad time in some1's life who are close to me.. then above all... me getting very serious 4 d person i always say is wrong for me ... n having the best moments of my life wd her.. or should i say past 17 days should keep on repeating again n again... n 2day is that unfortunate day when it all ended... maybe the shortest love story of my life....... will talk bout all this later ya shayad na bhi kar paun...

yes ppl this is probably the first time am writing a blog entry wehile am happy.... shocked... nw what shud i say... just that god is gr8.... there ws a day whn i took sm1 as a gd fren.. n taught her trhe ways to survive in this world n especilly in our coll... bt she let me down coz of lot of reasons which i think i hv talked in my old entries... as a consequence i lost her or shud i say i left her coz she didnt wanted a suppport n thaught that she can handle stuff very well... well no probs n i ws happy in my domain bt she uttered a few words abt me to sm1... which ws nt expected... n its feels really bad to hear that ur care is named as being over conservative.... n lots more... nyways i decided to ruin her life bt then i realized that if she id bad it doesnt mean i shud do the same... so left the thing n ws happy in my life... n 2day what a day... god gave her a lesson 2day.... i hope she'll understand or else.... well the best part is i didnt do nything n it just happened bt s...

well the title might sound very rude but ya it is absolutely correct.... dont worry am not complaining just like that but i have a proof... an eye witness.... ya i am.... well just finished watching "just married"(fardeen khan-esha deol) n trust me i wont be partial... but i rellly liked the movie... exactly how many times do u think i hv written a blog entry regarding a movie... 1st time na... hmmm well ya this is the 2nd time i hv liked a hindi romantic kinda movie... 1st being mohabbatein... & seriouslly ppl its really a good movie.. am nt going on any technical details coz when u like a movie u ignore all the technical details i ws just concerned wd the feelings behind the movie.. now whats the role of critics rt... so they gv this movie 1.5stars... n trust me it worths far more than that.... i sm where read that this movie is similar to honeymoon travels pvt ltd. bt its far much better than that theme can be a bit same bt this movie is far much better.... awsome acti...

OK tell me how will u feel when sm1 u like... is interested in sm1 else.. or whn that sm1 asks u for suggestions regarding her love life n abt sm1 whom she kindoff like... knowing that i also kindoff like her... ya ya i know she wants to be just my best fren.... bt cant i ever be sm1 more than a fren for a girl... am so pissed of with the foll lines used by 100's of girls who were or are a part of my life... 1>u r one of the best guy i hv ever met... 2>ur hrt is so pure n how can u care so muh abt a girls feelings... 3>u the best fren i can ver get... 4>am so lucky to hv a fren like u... i mean u understand me n its always so comfortable to talk to u n to share my feelings with u... n so on... bt in a nutshell i can be a best fren... a gr8 guy to talk to n a person whom u want in ur life as a fren always... bt i can nvr be sm1 whom a girl cn like more than a fren... this all reminds me of the movie "just frens(2005)"which i saw in Srilanka-Singapore flight... ...

well this is the question that was going through my mind.. n i don't remember since when.. but 2day i got its answer while watching a movie " the holiday "... n trust me its so true here what the answer says:-- ans- "because you are hoping you are wrong & every time she does something that tells you that she is no good,you ignore it & every time she comes through n surprises you,she wins you over n you loose the argument with yourself that she is not for you!!!" let me also include some more lines from the movie:-- And on top of that, there's the old standby, 'I can't believe a girl like that would actually be with a guy like me.'" Okay, so it's a quote from a particularly bad movie, but it's helping at the moment. If you're not hurting anyone, then, no matter who you are, no matter where you are in life, be it successful or struggling, rich or poor, jock or nerd, you have the right to a basic level of kindness an...

Love is constant,no matter what the season Its that beautiful emotion which has no explanation or reason... For as times change & people do,,Love stays forever True... May be that's the reason,Why there'll always be... SEASON OF HEART.... "Happy Valentines day" may destiny always favours u n ur love life n if u get true love..don't let it go... all the best tc n keep-smiling... ©-passionvaibhav.co.nr p.s:- plz dnt fwd this quote...or if u want to use it plz dnt remove the ©-tag...

welll to start withh..lets cont..with my last entry... well am over with that bad moment of my life.. it ws all full of pain n why not??? something like this nt expected from a 4yr old fren... bt i guess this is life.. u can nt trust ny1.. bt as sm1 told me "v nvr get wt v want... v nvr wnt wht we gt... v nvr hv wht v like... v nvr like wht v hv... stil v live... stil v luv... stil v hope.... this is life" ... so am over wd it hmm but i dont thing i can ever forget those memories.... "waise aaj fir kisi ki yaad aayi hai... in hawaon ke saath kisi ki khushboo aayi hai.... to kya hua wo saath nahin... km se km unki yaadein to unki tareh nahin!!!!" hmm this is i guess my destiny... only the persom whom i love the most.. whom i hv always taken as my best fren.... leaves me... i guess its better nt to care for ny1... aaj such mein i am missing 2 ppl a lot!!! 1 to samne hokar bhi saath nahin n dusra door hai pr use humari yaad nahin.... bt something which...

jst whn i thot that my life is rocking wdout ny probs n tensions..... something happened which reminded me of 1 of mine previous blog entry where i wrote:--- "when love invades,,,,, frenship fades...." yes this quotation again proved to be a truth... it feels so bad when some 1 who is close to u,,n ws with u for so long.. makes u feel that love is much much imp than frenship... am nt talking abt just sm1 bt 1spl one... yes a person for whom u did so much,, u were there for her whn she ws in trouble or pain or whn she had a fight wd her love... bt a month long love story can break years of frenship n trust... jst think how will u feel whn a fren like this who ws so close to u tells u on ur face that she has changed her cell no n she ws nt takng ny1's call after being asked "that why were u nt taking my calls or replying to my msgs which i hv been sending for past 1 month.." n evn after this she tells u that she wont giv...